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I specialise in Solution Focused Hypnotherapy near Bicester, Oxfordshire - a proactive approach that empowers you to quickly regain control and move towards a happier, more confident future.

Solution Focused Hypnotherapy taps into the power of your subconscious mind, so you can move forward towards the life you’ve always wanted to live.

It’s a quick, practical way to address thought patterns, emotions and/or behaviours that are holding you back in life.

It’s based on the latest research from neuroscience and incorporates the very best elements of Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Clinical Hypnotherapy.

It combines a non-invasive form of ‘talking therapy’ with a gentle trance-like state that puts you in control, replacing negative anxious thoughts, allowing your mind to be open to positive changes. 

It essentially helps ‘silence’ the negative chatter in your mind, harnessing the principles of neuroplasticity to facilitate positive neural pathway changes, allowing you to reshape your thought patterns, emotions and behaviours towards a desired outcome.

Normally, I work with clients over a number of weeks, usually between 6 to 12 weeks, but everyone is different and we work in a solution focused way.

Solution Focused Hypnotherapy believes you already have the necessary resources to find solutions and to make positive changes in your life.

Rather than dwelling on the problem, as a Hypnotherapist I help you develop your strengths. I help you understand and create your goals, turning them into reality (the solution), whilst equipping you with a set of lifelong mental well-being resources, creating lasting positive changes to your life, thoughts, and behaviours.

Ready to get out of your own way and let the good stuff happen? Let’s work together!

What will you start to notice?

Throughout our sessions together, you'll notice those feelings of stress and anxiety melting away, replaced by a newfound sense of clarity and purpose. You'll begin to see yourself thinking and acting in ways that fully support your goals, nudging you closer to the very best version of yourself.

While I wish I could wave a magic wand and make everything instantly better, true transformation takes time and dedication. Each session builds upon the last, creating a solid foundation for lasting change.

Together, we'll bid farewell to the past and set our sights firmly on crafting the future you've always dreamed of. With each session, you'll experience a subtle yet profound shift in your mindset and behaviours, perfectly aligned with your goals and aspirations.

It's an exhilarating journey of transformation that leads to a deep sense of inner peace, heightened self-empowerment and personal growth.

WHAT CAN HYPNOTHERAPY HELP WITH:

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Anxiety and Worry

Control anxiety, settle anxious thoughts and create a calmer state of mind and increase positive thoughts.

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Weight Management / Loss

Change negative behaviours and a poor relationship with food to support weight management and weight loss.

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Self-Confidence

Develop a healthier self image increase self-esteem and gain the self-belief to develop your confidence.

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Depression / Low Mood

Feel more positive about life, boost your sense of self-worth, increase positive thoughts, and rediscover the motivation to move forward with renewed energy and purpose. 

Men’s Psychosexual Issues

Overcome performance anxiety, address non-medical erectile dysfunction (ED), manage premature ejaculation (PE), and tackle delayed or inability to orgasm. Porn addiction. Rediscover confidence, improve intimacy, and enjoy a more fulfilling sexual experience.

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Managing Emotions

Take control of difficult emotions like anger, overwhelm jealousy, guilt, so you’re in control of their impact on your life.

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Sleep (Insomnia)

Resolve sleep issues/sleep problems, restore good sleep patterns, and have a restful night's sleep, helping you wake up feeling refreshed and re-energized,

Relationship Issues

Address feelings of inadequacy, transform how you view yourself and others, and manage your emotions effectively to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships and greater self-confidence.

IBS Support

Manage Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) symptoms, reduce stress triggers. Empower your mind to relax and regain control over your body’s responses.

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Fears and Phobias

Gently overcome your phobia and build lasting confidence, allowing you to live free from debilitating fear and reclaim control over your life

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Business Performance

Overcome self-limiting perceptions, combat burnout, and unlock your potential, achieve your goals, and bring your vision to life with confidence and focus.

Big Life Events

Develop calm confidence for key moments like public speaking, weddings, exams, and presentations. Approach events such as job interviews, auditions, medical appointments, or career changes with ease. Manage stress and build resilience for any life event.

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Much more, including…

Stress | Driving Anxiety |Panic Attacks | Eating Problems/Food Addiction | Overwhelm | Low Self-Esteem | Anger Management | Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) | Motivation | Bad Habits | Fear of Flying / Airplanes | Focus / Motivation | Obsessions/Compulsions (OCD | Workplace Stress | Sports Performance | Pain Management | Low Mood | Bruxism | Dental Fear| Needle Phobia | Jealousy | Public Speaking | Social Phobia | Exam / Test Nerves | Toilet /Bladder Anxiety | Procrastination | Imposter Syndrome | Menopause Symptoms | Intimacy Issues | Reduce Food Cravings | Sexual Anxiety / Sexual Performance | Health Anxiety | Blushing | Interview Nerves | Excess Sweating (non-medical) | Improved Mental Health | General Positivity | Burn-Out … and much more!

The Hypnotherapy Process from Initial Consultation to Outcome

Book a Free 45 Minute Hypnotherapy Discovery Session

The first step is for you to book a Free Discovery Session / Initial Consultation and ask me anything you want to know about Solution Focused Hypnotherapy.

I can tell you more about hypnotherapy, my approach and we can delve into the neuroscience, how the mind creates unwanted negative thoughts, behaviours and the symptoms. Clients find these sessions very insightful and a real game changer! For 15-17 years olds, a parent will typically be in the Discovery Session/Initial Consultation.

I’ll outline what we can do to create positive change and you can also make sure it’s the right therapy for you.

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Supporting you and working together

We will work together to explore your needs. This is a collaborative process and we work jointly to put in place the right personalised treatment plan, including the expected number of hypnotherapy sessions.

Our hypnotherapy sessions together will be structured, positive and forward looking. We put actions in place and you are given the tools to make the necessary changes you want to make in your life.

Remember, hypnotherapy is not a quick fix, you have to fully be willing to make the necessary lasting change. But as your hypnotherapist I will support and guide you every step of the way.

Creating positive and lasting change

Our hypnotherapy sessions will find strengths you already posses. I will support and help you consider and refine your solutions that can move you forward towards a more positive life. 

We review your progress regularly. As you begin to reach your goals, you may want to leave more times between sessions.

Taking things forward

Your treatment comes to an end when you feel confident and in control and we mutually agree that you have the tools to maintain this positive new way of being.  Most people need between 6-12 hypnotherapy sessions (but everyone is different). Simple / Specific phobias can require less sessions.

Some clients choose to boost their results by coming for top-ups as part of a regular wellbeing routine. Like having a PT, but for your mental health.

What to expect in a Solution Focused Hypnotherapy Session: Talking Therapy & Hypnosis/Trance

Psychotherapy / ’Talking’ Therapy

Our sessions will start with non-invasive talking therapy.

I’ll guide you in envisioning your desired future, exploring potential solutions, and setting attainable goals.

Together, we'll prioritise discovering how you want to feel (i.e feeling calmer, rather than anxious), focusing on forward-thinking strategies (the solutions) - visualising your ideal future!

While we may touch on the past occasionally, my main aim is to steer you away from dwelling on the problem and towards a preferred outcome, allowing you to establish clear achievable goals and identifying the steps towards reaching these.

Through visualising these solutions, the mind begins to create new neurological pathways, reshaping and re-programming thoughts, emotions, and behaviours toward achieving the desired outcome (related to want you want to achieve through therapy) - your ideal future!

Depending on your goals, your sessions could involve elements of Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) or Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), as appropriate.

This part typically lasts around 30 minutes.

Hypnosis / Trance

The second half involves me gently guiding you into a state of deep relaxation, commonly known as trance/hypnosis.

You can sit up or recline back – whatever feels most comfortable. And yes, trance/hypnosis works just as effectively online as it does face to face.

In this relaxed state, your mind becomes highly receptive to positive suggestions and imagery, enabling you to tap into your subconscious mind with ease.

Think of it as a state of highly focused attention.

Your conscious mind is quietened, as you are detached from external attention and critical thinking, allowing your unconscious mind to deeply focus on thoughts and suggestions (the solutions we discussed) that might be useful to you.

Making those solutions a reality, that your mind will often reject.

After each session, you'll find yourself leaving a little lighter and brighter than when you first arrived.

This positive momentum will stay with you as you continue on your journey of growth and transformation.

For more information about the format of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy Sessions, check out my blog series HERE

What my clients say

  • "I’ve spoken to a lot of people in my life but this time it felt different. No more talking about the past or any negativity, instead purely focussing on the positive changes I can make in my life. It has helped me and my anxiety so much. Things that could have triggered me before but didn’t. I even look forward to the next session! "

    Katie - Sales Director - Bicester, Oxfordshire

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